docs: streamline tone across reference docs

Tone pass across the non-tutorial markdown — README, PROOFS,
ARCHITECTURE, BENCHMARKS, COMPLIANCE, FAQ, MES_INTEROP, SECURITY,
and interop/README.  Three patterns came out:

- Bug-history war stories ("Past interop sweeps surfaced…",
  "What these harnesses caught: 1. Strict U-width parsing…").
- Chat-with-reader framing ("Don't skip TLS unless…", "Treat as a
  punch list", "If you're running in a pod…", "Misconfiguration
  incidents drop dramatically").
- Self-referential narration ("we ship", "our codec", "the
  codebase's most-tested layer", "three orders of magnitude above
  fab load", "the gift that keeps giving").

README also drops the standalone ThreadSanitizer subsection under
Build details (now a single line under the new Testing section).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 <noreply@anthropic.com>

docs/FAQ.md

@@ -1,9 +1,6 @@
 # FAQ
 
-Questions we hear once per integration.  Skim before you ask.  If
-your question isn't here and isn't obvious from the other docs,
-ask once — your question probably belongs in this file and we'll
-add it.
+Questions we hear once per integration.
 
 ## Why is HSMS unencrypted?